Oscar is off fishing with Grandpa and Phoebe and I are going out shopping for her butterfly birthday party. I am a bad craft blog mom. I have no real plan for this party. A theme -- butterflies -- that's about all I have. No elaborate decorations or treats. No fancy crafts. So far I've got gluing poms on a popsicle stick to make a caterpillar and running through the sprinkler. I look back at Oscar's robot party and feel lots of guilt.