the first thing out of anyone's mouth when they meet phoebe is 'the hair!' then they look at me (gray masquerading as blond), then tim (reddish brown), then oscar (blondie) and try to figure it out. our best guess is it's my baby hair. I had dark spikey hair for about 4 months my mom says. then it was all pushed out by light brown curls. it's so hard to imagine phoebe without this dark hair. I just love it so much. there's an outside chance it's my mom's dark hair or tim's grandpa's dark hair but most likely she'll be looking a lot more like part of the family by around 4 months.